The latest fad seems to be online
confessions! I have to admit… there are many advantages to it such as getting
things off your chest, dealing better with a problem due to advice from people
and the total anonymity that it offers. Let me make myself clear… am against
certain type of confessions that is inappropriate and to tell the truth
disgusting. You guys may think that such posts are confessions and “fun” facts
but I call them what they exactly are- poison pen albeit evolved
technologically! The problem I see is that some of the confessions I have come
across on the Manovikas and Chowgule confession sites are just purely
vindictive and pathetic! It frightens me to think that some of the people
confessing such disturbing and malicious thoughts could actually be someone I
know and cared about. These pages have shown a whole new side of people who are
sick and gutless. They air their dirty linen in public and delight in the fact
that they can do it anonymously! Well here is news for you people! It is not
cool, not brave and definitely not something that is hilarious or fun. Before
you go ranting and trashing a person publicly try to think how would you feel
if the positions were reversed and it was you that was being mocked at? Please
do not give me the stupid excuse that you will never be ridiculed because you
have never committed a mistake. If you still use that as an excuse well you are
just being a big fat liar. It is sad to see that some people are unhappy till
they disgrace someone else. How can people jeer or make fun of the teachers who
have made our second home bearable? Yes, there are a few exceptions to that but
what right do you have to tarnish the image of someone who is obviously older
than you and holds a respected position? Would you post a happy smile and walk
around like Mary sunshine if people comment on your behavior and body parts? The
people who like such posts are just as bad! If you think you are not causing
any harm by doing that think again!! You are just encouraging such people to
write even more. Just goes to show that some people are such hypocrites that
they readily forget a huge amount of stuff the teachers and a lot of classmates
they trash have done for them. You think this is harmless fun? I can assure you
it is not for the people targeted. It is downright cruel and unbecoming so stop
being so immature. Frankly speaking I am ashamed to have known such people and
to have called them my friends. Grow up people and have the guts to tell people
you dislike them to their faces instead of pathetically hiding behind the
security that an online anonymity can give you!!
This is so true ! At first I believed that maybe this whole confessions thing was actually good, due to the cathartic part but later people began misusing it ... thanks alot for bringing this topic to light ! :)
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